So, far it has been a pretty good weekend. Friday, the girls had a Thanksgiving dinner at school. Unfortunately, I was not able to attend because of work. Normally, I would have taken the day off to go, but this year business has been slow-- partly because of the economy, and partly because I initially kept my schedule light-- thinking I would be traveling to Russia. My Mom came down though to go to the dinner with them. She first had lunch with Little A-- she was surprised that Little A came up and hugged her when she got there. She said she thought that Little A wouldn't know who she was-- I have always showed Little A pictures of her and talk about her all the time-- it is just a shame that she doesn't come to visit the girls more often-- I think I've made the effort to get her to come visit more-- she just chooses not to, I guess. After lunch with Little A, my Mom went over to Big A's classroom to eat with her. I had arranged for Big A to leave school early, so the two of them went shopping at a nearby mall while Little A took her nap at school. Big A said that they had a good time. I think it was good that they had some alone time together. Big A really loves her Nana, and it really breaks her heart that she doesn't get to see her much. Big A is always asking why Nana doesn't come to see her. She tells me that she wishes Nana wasn't mad at me, so she would come more. I wish she would come more also, but I can't do anything about that. I have tried to get her to visit and stay more than one night at a time, but she obivously doesn't feel comfortable being around me-- therefore my kids suffer. It is a shame.
When I got home from work, we orderd Chinese food and just hung out. I let the girls stay up late so they could spend more time with Nana. Theresa also came over to spend the weekend-- so the house was pretty full. Saturday my Mom took me and the girls to brunch at The Cracker Barrel before she left. Then we rushed to get to a birthday party for one of Big A's classmates. It was at a nearby park. The girls had a great time, although there were a couple of stressful moments-- one of Big A's earrings fell out at the park, and I could not get it back in, and Little A had a few fits because she had missed her nap. But all in all, it was a fun party. Below is a picture of the girls with one of the prizes from their goodie bags.

The Two Marx Sisters
The real drama/trauma occured after the party, when I tried to get that Damn earring back into Big A's ear. It was the same earring that had fallen out a few days before, only this time, I could not seem to get it back through the hole. Finally, after a lot of ice, antiseptic, and SCREAMING from Big A, I got it back in. I'm not who was more traumatized me or Big A. Now I am very worried that her ear will get infected. I hope that this does not happen again-- I don't thin I can take it. I basically had to repierce the back of her ear, because the earring would only go through halfway- finally I just pushed REALLY hard, and earring went through! I made me nausious, but it had to be done. Hopefully her ear won't fall off. She says it doesn't hurt now, so I think that is a good sign.
Now I must go blow the millions of leaves that have covered my front yard!